My husband had a scheduled knee replacement nine (9) days ago. As this had been planned for months, we had time to get as organized as possible. His “job” was to get his body in great physical shape, which he did by going to the gym 4-5 times a week. He met with the Physical Therapist prior to the procedure and did all his pre-op exercises regularly.

And I got ready for my "temporary" role. We had been "warned" that it would be a difficult recovery for the first two weeks by friends, the PT, and even the doctor. We planned food, borrowed an ice machine (a must!), and even put rails on the toilet seat. I was told by friends who had been the "caregiver" that it is demanding and not to expect much time for myself.

I thought being a temporary caregiver was a no-brainer, right? Easy, right? Nope.

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